ly to be.

Though this first stage is one of fearlessness and rebellion, it is also a period of tentative or provisional commitments, for swaying with the wind and changing principles at the drop of a hat, particularly for personal benefit. Hence the emphasis on money and tangible rewards. They dread anything too permanent. Developing their own sense of identity, as distinct from those of parents and childhood peer groups, now becomes critical. They tend

Adult evolution begins in the late teens and early twenties, the first crucial staging post which is often a selfish time for those involved. It forms the foundation stage when people set the basics for their future. In Britain, teenagers can do a lot at 16, like leaving school, which they could not do many years before and this is a major milestone, charting the beginning of their independence. At this crucial stage there is an emphasis on the self: especially on self-image, this being a most fashion-conscious time that takes a lot of money from the bank of Mom and Dad and puts it in the shops. One where designer labels matter much more than the labour required to get them! A stage where there is a real struggle between personal autonomy and dependence on parents, with much effort to define the self as an individual separate from anyone else.

There is a definite realignment from family of origin to new peers and groups. Lacking wider personal experience, this is the ‘gut reaction’ phase, characterised by automatic reflexes and a lack of focus. It is very difficult to settle on any one thing or partner at this time because life seems to be a huge treasure chest, with so much to discover, with an accompanying impatience to discover it. Hence this is a period of exploration and self-discovery; of leaving home, perhaps for university or higher education, escaping from parental control, developing personal autonomy, not appreciating other people or their actions, trying out new possibilities for a career or worrying about facial zits and one’s personal appeal. The main focus now, as youngsters loosen themselves from their nest, is upon defining themselves as individuals and establishing a new life structure they regard as unique to them. The greater the individual confidence, the more stable and successful this time is likely to be.

Though this first stage is one of fearlessness and rebellion, it is also a period of tentative or provisional commitments, for swaying with the wind and changing principles at the drop of a hat, particularly for personal benefit. Hence the emphasis on money and tangible rewards. They dread anything too permanent. Developing their own sense of identity, as distinct from those of parents and childhood peer groups, now becomes critical. They tend t

y on self-image, this being a most fashion-conscious time that takes a lot of money from the bank of Mom and Dad and puts it in the shops. One where designer labels matter much more than the labour required to get them! A stage where there is a real struggle between personal autonomy and dependence on parents, with much effort to define the self as an individual separate from anyone else.

There is a definite realignment from family of origin to new peers and groups. Lacking wider personal experience, this is the ‘gut reaction’ phase, characterised by automatic reflexes and a lack of focus. It is very difficult to settle on any one thing or partner at this time because life seems to be a huge treasure chest, with so much to discover, with an accompanying impatience to discover it. Hence this is a period of exploration and self-discovery; of leaving home, perhaps for university or higher education, escaping from parental control, developing personal autonomy, not appreciating other people or their actions, trying out new possibilities for a career or worrying about facial zits and one’s personal appeal. The main focus now, as youngsters loosen themselves from their nest, is upon defining themselves as individuals and establishing a new life structure they regard as unique to them. The greater the individual confidence, the more stable and successful this time is likely to be.

Though this first stage is one of fearlessness and rebellion, it is also a period of tentative or provisional commitments, for swaying with the wind and changing principles at the drop of a hat, particularly for personal benefit. Hence the emphasis on money and tangible rewards. They dread anything too permanent. Developing their own sense of identity, as distinct from those of parents and childhood peer groups, now becomes critical. They tend

and groups. Lacking wider personal experience, this is the ‘gut reaction’ phase, characterised by automatic reflexes and a lack of focus. It is very difficult to settle on any one thing or partner at this time because life seems to be a huge treasure chest, with so much to discover, with an accompanying impatience to discover it. Hence this is a period of exploration and self-discovery; of leaving home, perhaps for university or higher education, escaping from parental control, developing personal autonomy, not appreciating other people or their actions, trying out new possibilities for a career or worrying about facial zits and one’s personal appeal. The main focus now, as youngsters loosen themselves from their nest, is upon defining themselves as individuals and establishing a new life structure they regard as unique to them. The greater the individual confidence, the more stable and successful this time is likely to be.

Though this first stage is one of fearlessness and rebellion, it is also a period of tentative or provisional commitments, for swaying with the wind and changing principles at the drop of a hat, particularly for personal benefit. Hence the emphasis on money and tangible rewards. They dread anything too permanent. Developing their own sense of identity, as distinct from those of parents and childhood peer groups, now becomes critical. They tend

parental control, developing personal autonomy, not appreciating other people or their actions, trying out new possibilities for a career or worrying about facial zits and one’s personal appeal. The main focus now, as youngsters loosen themselves from their nest, is upon defining themselves as individuals and establishing a new life structure they regard as unique to them. The greater the individual confidence, the more stable and successful this time is likely to be.

Though this first stage is one of fearlessness and rebellion, it is also a period of tentative or provisional commitments, for swaying with the wind and changing principles at the drop of a hat, particularly for personal benefit. Hence the emphasis on money and tangible rewards. They dread anything too permanent. Developing their own sense of identity, as distinct from those of parents and childhood peer groups, now becomes critical. They tend

ly to be.

Though this first stage is one of fearlessness and rebellion, it is also a period of tentative or provisional commitments, for swaying with the wind and changing principles at the drop of a hat, particularly for personal benefit. Hence the emphasis on money and tangible rewards. They dread anything too permanent. Developing their own sense of identity, as distinct from those of parents and childhood peer groups, now becomes critical. They tend to try out new relationships (e.g. romantic interests, professional associates, friends), being comfortable with themselves and pretty easy about life.

Bad Career Choices

Some youngsters at this stage are so laid-back as to be almost horizontal. They believe there is plenty of time ahead to change their minds on decisions concerning occupation, intimate liaisons, values, etc. There seems little need to hurry and they demonstrate it with reluctant action, taking their own sweet time to do what they want, much to the despair and frustration of anxious parents, teachers or employers. This is also a stage when young people, particularly those with low esteem or dominated by parents tend to make naff choices in occupations only to repent them at leisure later on.

The main aim here is simply to survive and eventually advance and the young have to learn how to do it, and in their own time, regardless of all the well-meaning advice they will be getting from older, more experienced, members around them. Survival apparently does not come easily either because men of 24 years in the UK tend to commit suicide the most, for some reason. At this stage, everyone will be relatively new to their jobs. While the arrogance of youth may lead many into a false sense of their own capability, they soon find that they have much to learn, not only about life itself, but also about the increasing responsibilities which make up their jobs or activities. However, many youngsters are reluctant to accept this realisation, hanging on to parents and home, particularly young men, who now tend to leave home in mid-thirties.

Workers at this staging post are often willing to do anything to prove their enthusiasm, skills and knowledge. They hope to impress their managers in order to advance to positions with more responsibility or m