easy to forget to ask for information. Don’t play ‘join up the dots’. Find out all you can about the wonderful new person in your life. Don’t aSome people are instinctively better at relationships than others. It may be something that they learned from watching how their own parents relate. It may have come about as a result of having a strong sense of self-worth instilled in them by parents and a loving, supportive circle.

If your past relationships ended in disappointment, hurt and disillusionment, maybe picking good potential partners is not one of your natural gifts. But it is something you can learn.

So how do you do it?

· Take new relationships SLOWLY. In the early days of a relationship it’s easy to forget to ask for information. Don’t play ‘join up the dots’. Find out all you can about the wonderful new person in your life. Don’t as

e. It may have come about as a result of having a strong sense of self-worth instilled in them by parents and a loving, supportive circle.

If your past relationships ended in disappointment, hurt and disillusionment, maybe picking good potential partners is not one of your natural gifts. But it is something you can learn.

So how do you do it?

· Take new relationships SLOWLY. In the early days of a relationship it’s easy to forget to ask for information. Don’t play ‘join up the dots’. Find out all you can about the wonderful new person in your life. Don’t a

f your past relationships ended in disappointment, hurt and disillusionment, maybe picking good potential partners is not one of your natural gifts. But it is something you can learn.

So how do you do it?

· Take new relationships SLOWLY. In the early days of a relationship it’s easy to forget to ask for information. Don’t play ‘join up the dots’. Find out all you can about the wonderful new person in your life. Don’t a

. But it is something you can learn.

So how do you do it?

· Take new relationships SLOWLY. In the early days of a relationship it’s easy to forget to ask for information. Don’t play ‘join up the dots’. Find out all you can about the wonderful new person in your life. Don’t a

easy to forget to ask for information. Don’t play ‘join up the dots’. Find out all you can about the wonderful new person in your life. Don’t assume that if he/she says or does X then that means Y and Z. Guessing is not a successful way of evaluating a potential life partner.

· Beware of rushing into a relationship in which you need to look after, or rescue someone through their difficulties. Your giving is more likely to be expected than it is to be valued or reciprocated.

· Be sure you have similar values about money, work, fidelity, monogamy, personal hygiene, friendship and child-rearing. Otherwise the relationship will probably founder further down the line.

· Be very aware of every little ‘