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"Are you better off with him or without him?"

Sure cuts to the chase doesn't it?

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estion was:

"Are you better off with him or without him?"

Sure cuts to the chase doesn't it?

A slightly different question

Often in my counseling/coaching office and in my writing, I like to take that question and turn it on its head. The best way I can demonstrate this is by offering the following quote by Richard Needham about marriage:

"You don't marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they

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tly different question

Often in my counseling/coaching office and in my writing, I like to take that question and turn it on its head. The best way I can demonstrate this is by offering the following quote by Richard Needham about marriage:

"You don't marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they

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nd turn it on its head. The best way I can demonstrate this is by offering the following quote by Richard Needham about marriage:

"You don't marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they

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arriage:

"You don't marry one person; you marry three: the person you think they are, the person they are, and the person they are going to become as the result of being married to you."

That should stop you in your tracks.

What this question suggests is that instead of asking the question "Am I better off with or without my partner?" we would do well to ask "Is my partner better off with or without me?"

Some tough questions

How has your partner benefited from being with you? Have they grown into the best possible version of themselves?