or their relationships. The thinking goes, ‘We are adults we know how to communicate.”

Except, more often than not, people do not know how to communicate effectively!

People pay the price for that ignorance in wrecked marriages, split families, lost business and untold emotional pain and stress, often resulting in physical health problems—high blood pressure, ulcers, heart attacks, strokes, migraine headaches and the list goes on.

It does not need to be that way. There are secrets and strategies anyone can learn to ta

You will recognize this scenario—You have a misunderstanding with your spouse before leaving for work, you leave feeling bad, then you are distracted and unfocused at a meeting, with your boss, colleagues, employees or customers.

Likewise, you have a misunderstanding with your boss, a colleague or employee and you bring the emotional aftermath home with you—therefore, you are grumpy and short-tempered with your family.

You might think that ‘letting a by-gone be a by-gone’ is the answer to these miscommunications. These misunderstandings lead to further upset that seldom get resolved, they are simply buried. Then it festers over time, producing feelings of resentment, alienation and separation.

When do you think most relationships start to go wrong? First, there is a ‘failure to communicate clearly’—a miscommunication that leads to an unfortunate misunderstanding of some sort.

Miscommunication and unresolved issues usually involve hurt feelings and emotional turmoil at some level. These in turn lead to some combination of blame fixing, fault finding, anger, defensiveness, attack, justification, feeling victimized, excuses, etc.

The cumulative effect of the inability to communicate effectively, resolve upsets at their source and heal the emotional wounds in relationships is that you lose that authentic, heartfelt connection that is so vital to healthy, alive, growing relationships. You become doomed to going through the motions, hoping it will get better—only it seldom does.

People often draw a line between ‘personal’ relationships and ‘professional’ relationships, thinking that because the emotional aspects, in the work environment, are less important, but you do so at your peril.

The truth is, the same problems occur in all relationships—miscommunication, unresolved issues, projection, misinterpretation, anger, hurt, defensiveness, etc.—and the consequences of failed relationships are painful and can be devastating mentally, emotionally and financially.

People spend huge amounts of money on weddings, business plans, vacations, marketing plans and every gadget imaginable, except for their relationships. The thinking goes, ‘We are adults we know how to communicate.”

Except, more often than not, people do not know how to communicate effectively!

People pay the price for that ignorance in wrecked marriages, split families, lost business and untold emotional pain and stress, often resulting in physical health problems—high blood pressure, ulcers, heart attacks, strokes, migraine headaches and the list goes on.

It does not need to be that way. There are secrets and strategies anyone can learn to tak

nderstandings lead to further upset that seldom get resolved, they are simply buried. Then it festers over time, producing feelings of resentment, alienation and separation.

When do you think most relationships start to go wrong? First, there is a ‘failure to communicate clearly’—a miscommunication that leads to an unfortunate misunderstanding of some sort.

Miscommunication and unresolved issues usually involve hurt feelings and emotional turmoil at some level. These in turn lead to some combination of blame fixing, fault finding, anger, defensiveness, attack, justification, feeling victimized, excuses, etc.

The cumulative effect of the inability to communicate effectively, resolve upsets at their source and heal the emotional wounds in relationships is that you lose that authentic, heartfelt connection that is so vital to healthy, alive, growing relationships. You become doomed to going through the motions, hoping it will get better—only it seldom does.

People often draw a line between ‘personal’ relationships and ‘professional’ relationships, thinking that because the emotional aspects, in the work environment, are less important, but you do so at your peril.

The truth is, the same problems occur in all relationships—miscommunication, unresolved issues, projection, misinterpretation, anger, hurt, defensiveness, etc.—and the consequences of failed relationships are painful and can be devastating mentally, emotionally and financially.

People spend huge amounts of money on weddings, business plans, vacations, marketing plans and every gadget imaginable, except for their relationships. The thinking goes, ‘We are adults we know how to communicate.”

Except, more often than not, people do not know how to communicate effectively!

People pay the price for that ignorance in wrecked marriages, split families, lost business and untold emotional pain and stress, often resulting in physical health problems—high blood pressure, ulcers, heart attacks, strokes, migraine headaches and the list goes on.

It does not need to be that way. There are secrets and strategies anyone can learn to ta

finding, anger, defensiveness, attack, justification, feeling victimized, excuses, etc.

The cumulative effect of the inability to communicate effectively, resolve upsets at their source and heal the emotional wounds in relationships is that you lose that authentic, heartfelt connection that is so vital to healthy, alive, growing relationships. You become doomed to going through the motions, hoping it will get better—only it seldom does.

People often draw a line between ‘personal’ relationships and ‘professional’ relationships, thinking that because the emotional aspects, in the work environment, are less important, but you do so at your peril.

The truth is, the same problems occur in all relationships—miscommunication, unresolved issues, projection, misinterpretation, anger, hurt, defensiveness, etc.—and the consequences of failed relationships are painful and can be devastating mentally, emotionally and financially.

People spend huge amounts of money on weddings, business plans, vacations, marketing plans and every gadget imaginable, except for their relationships. The thinking goes, ‘We are adults we know how to communicate.”

Except, more often than not, people do not know how to communicate effectively!

People pay the price for that ignorance in wrecked marriages, split families, lost business and untold emotional pain and stress, often resulting in physical health problems—high blood pressure, ulcers, heart attacks, strokes, migraine headaches and the list goes on.

It does not need to be that way. There are secrets and strategies anyone can learn to ta

s, thinking that because the emotional aspects, in the work environment, are less important, but you do so at your peril.

The truth is, the same problems occur in all relationships—miscommunication, unresolved issues, projection, misinterpretation, anger, hurt, defensiveness, etc.—and the consequences of failed relationships are painful and can be devastating mentally, emotionally and financially.

People spend huge amounts of money on weddings, business plans, vacations, marketing plans and every gadget imaginable, except for their relationships. The thinking goes, ‘We are adults we know how to communicate.”

Except, more often than not, people do not know how to communicate effectively!

People pay the price for that ignorance in wrecked marriages, split families, lost business and untold emotional pain and stress, often resulting in physical health problems—high blood pressure, ulcers, heart attacks, strokes, migraine headaches and the list goes on.

It does not need to be that way. There are secrets and strategies anyone can learn to ta

or their relationships. The thinking goes, ‘We are adults we know how to communicate.”

Except, more often than not, people do not know how to communicate effectively!

People pay the price for that ignorance in wrecked marriages, split families, lost business and untold emotional pain and stress, often resulting in physical health problems—high blood pressure, ulcers, heart attacks, strokes, migraine headaches and the list goes on.

It does not need to be that way. There are secrets and strategies anyone can learn to take charge of the quality of all their relationships, personal and professional, that are just not taught in any school.

As a Life Coach I teach these little-known secrets and strategies. It is surprisingly inexpensive. It is less expensive than being fired, getting a divorce or having physical manifestations of ill health from stress and emotional hurt.