are left alone as you may not always feel like accompanying your partner. Then this passion becomes a problem.

Ultimately, it’s the degree of differences you have between you and the level up to which both of you are willing to extend and make necessary compromise and adjustments.

We need to seriously analyze our differences and make sure that they don’t come in the way of creating further rift betw

Many of us, go all out and leave no stone unturned in our quest for finding the right partner. Someone god made with his own hands, exclusively for you! Someone, who is a perfect fit to all your expectations, needs and desires.

Who share each and every belief and interest to the Tee. Well, if you are searching for a person with such capabilities, you are chasing an illusion. It never happens. And by this, you are calling for some serious disappointments in your life.

Come to think of it, every individual, has his or her own tastes, interests, hobbies, political beliefs, values, which are based on our breeding, upbringing and cultural backgrounds. These are the attributes which make us unique human beings and interesting to another fellow human.

When it comes to a relationship, there has to be some reasonable amount of commonality, but you can not become a duplicate of another. In fact, some differences in your partner can add value to your own life.

For example, if you are know for your short-temper and impatience and your partner is an epitome of patience, he/she actually complements your life. Imagine, your partner is an avid golfer and you always wanted to know and play the game. Aren’t these qualities adding value to your life and making it more wholesome?

Starting from golf, you can slowly and gradually take interest in your partner’s interest areas, like reading, jogging, etc and add more and more interesting items in your own life, at the same time enjoying another person to the hilt. The reverse is also applicable. For instance, your partner’s affinity for golf absorbs his time most weekends. You are left alone as you may not always feel like accompanying your partner. Then this passion becomes a problem.

Ultimately, it’s the degree of differences you have between you and the level up to which both of you are willing to extend and make necessary compromise and adjustments.

We need to seriously analyze our differences and make sure that they don’t come in the way of creating further rift betwe

you are calling for some serious disappointments in your life.

Come to think of it, every individual, has his or her own tastes, interests, hobbies, political beliefs, values, which are based on our breeding, upbringing and cultural backgrounds. These are the attributes which make us unique human beings and interesting to another fellow human.

When it comes to a relationship, there has to be some reasonable amount of commonality, but you can not become a duplicate of another. In fact, some differences in your partner can add value to your own life.

For example, if you are know for your short-temper and impatience and your partner is an epitome of patience, he/she actually complements your life. Imagine, your partner is an avid golfer and you always wanted to know and play the game. Aren’t these qualities adding value to your life and making it more wholesome?

Starting from golf, you can slowly and gradually take interest in your partner’s interest areas, like reading, jogging, etc and add more and more interesting items in your own life, at the same time enjoying another person to the hilt. The reverse is also applicable. For instance, your partner’s affinity for golf absorbs his time most weekends. You are left alone as you may not always feel like accompanying your partner. Then this passion becomes a problem.

Ultimately, it’s the degree of differences you have between you and the level up to which both of you are willing to extend and make necessary compromise and adjustments.

We need to seriously analyze our differences and make sure that they don’t come in the way of creating further rift betw

sonable amount of commonality, but you can not become a duplicate of another. In fact, some differences in your partner can add value to your own life.

For example, if you are know for your short-temper and impatience and your partner is an epitome of patience, he/she actually complements your life. Imagine, your partner is an avid golfer and you always wanted to know and play the game. Aren’t these qualities adding value to your life and making it more wholesome?

Starting from golf, you can slowly and gradually take interest in your partner’s interest areas, like reading, jogging, etc and add more and more interesting items in your own life, at the same time enjoying another person to the hilt. The reverse is also applicable. For instance, your partner’s affinity for golf absorbs his time most weekends. You are left alone as you may not always feel like accompanying your partner. Then this passion becomes a problem.

Ultimately, it’s the degree of differences you have between you and the level up to which both of you are willing to extend and make necessary compromise and adjustments.

We need to seriously analyze our differences and make sure that they don’t come in the way of creating further rift betw

es adding value to your life and making it more wholesome?

Starting from golf, you can slowly and gradually take interest in your partner’s interest areas, like reading, jogging, etc and add more and more interesting items in your own life, at the same time enjoying another person to the hilt. The reverse is also applicable. For instance, your partner’s affinity for golf absorbs his time most weekends. You are left alone as you may not always feel like accompanying your partner. Then this passion becomes a problem.

Ultimately, it’s the degree of differences you have between you and the level up to which both of you are willing to extend and make necessary compromise and adjustments.

We need to seriously analyze our differences and make sure that they don’t come in the way of creating further rift betw

are left alone as you may not always feel like accompanying your partner. Then this passion becomes a problem.

Ultimately, it’s the degree of differences you have between you and the level up to which both of you are willing to extend and make necessary compromise and adjustments.

We need to seriously analyze our differences and make sure that they don’t come in the way of creating further rift between us. Love and sex are not the only two parameters on which relationships are built. It needs a stronger, more sustainable pillar called compatibility, very different from sameness.

While differences can maintain that spark in a relationship, it should ignite any fire. You must be able to keep your own sense of identity, give each other adequate space, yet love to be with each other. But remember an important thing about giving space. Some couples are so individualistic and give each other so much space that it is only space that remains, they are no longer partners, merely room mates.

Quite a lot of people find nothing wrong in being physically together, though mentally apart, but according to me, this is not my preferred choice in a relationship. A relationship is all about being together, both mentally and physically. You have decided to walk the path of life together, through its many rivers, crevices and valleys – only to discover, and re-discover each other over and over again. That is what true love is all about – our eternal search for it ends here.

So stop looking for the “perfect” partner, instead, look for someone who is “right “for you. Made for each other. And remember, without the adequate nutrients, even the match of two very “right” people can fall apart.

What you sow, you reap. Many of us regret that we did not work hard enough to add more value to our relationships, while we still had the chance to do so. Many of us hop from one person to another, searching for that mirage called the “perfect partner”, only to find ourselves back on the track with yet another new person, while all along som