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4. You must apply the cat and the string theory. This theory goes on the assumption that once a woman knows that she has you, she is no longer interested. So in theory you must push/pull her. Which means you show a little interest and that back off. You compliment her, and then take it away.

5. You must use negs. Negs are subtle insults or back handed compliments you give extremely beautiful women to knock them off their pedestal so to speak. A good neg, "You just spit on me." You would say this to a girl as she is talking to you.

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For years shelves at bookstores have been packed with books containing dating and relationship advice. These books have always been geared towards women. Topics of the books ranged from "how to keep your man faithful," to the recent best seller "He's Just Not Into You." The common quality of these books is that that they were written with a target audience of females. While some of the advice could be practical for men, it was never male gender specific.

Sure books like John Eagans "How to Pick up Girls," have always existed. But these books never sold anywhere near as many copies as their female counterparts.

That was until Neil Strauss's recent best seller, "The Game-Penetrating the Secret Society of the Pick Up Artist" took the world by storm and exposed the rapidly growing underground community of male gurus out there teaching the art of seduction.

Maybe it was because it does not seem masculine to walk into a bookstore and purchase a book on improving your success with women, that these gurus have chosen to preach their teachings in a more underground fashion. But these gurus, whether they like it or not, are now entering the mainstream culture.

The most popular of these gurus are David DeAngelo, Ross Jeffries, Carlos Zuma, Michael Stoute, the men behind The Mystery Method, and Wayne "Juggler" Elise. While all their method vary they all fundamentally teach the same principles.

These principles include:

1. You must become an alpha male. An alpha male is the super masculine guy who leads the group, is aggressive in pursuing what he wants, and does not supplicate him self for anyone.

2. You must develop a repetoir of openers. An opener is a conversation starter that gets your foot in the door in a situation where you would like to talk to a woman. The best openers tend to be the non-direct ones. Something like an opinion opener, "Who lies more men or women," works best because it is non threatning and the woman will not go into a defensive mode.

3. You must learn to read women's indicators of interest (ioi's) These are the subtle things she says, body language clues, gestures that are green lights. Generally once you get 3 of these you can assume that she is interested and begin displaying your own interest.

4. You must apply the cat and the string theory. This theory goes on the assumption that once a woman knows that she has you, she is no longer interested. So in theory you must push/pull her. Which means you show a little interest and that back off. You compliment her, and then take it away.

5. You must use negs. Negs are subtle insults or back handed compliments you give extremely beautiful women to knock them off their pedestal so to speak. A good neg, "You just spit on me." You would say this to a girl as she is talking to you.

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e near as many copies as their female counterparts.

That was until Neil Strauss's recent best seller, "The Game-Penetrating the Secret Society of the Pick Up Artist" took the world by storm and exposed the rapidly growing underground community of male gurus out there teaching the art of seduction.

Maybe it was because it does not seem masculine to walk into a bookstore and purchase a book on improving your success with women, that these gurus have chosen to preach their teachings in a more underground fashion. But these gurus, whether they like it or not, are now entering the mainstream culture.

The most popular of these gurus are David DeAngelo, Ross Jeffries, Carlos Zuma, Michael Stoute, the men behind The Mystery Method, and Wayne "Juggler" Elise. While all their method vary they all fundamentally teach the same principles.

These principles include:

1. You must become an alpha male. An alpha male is the super masculine guy who leads the group, is aggressive in pursuing what he wants, and does not supplicate him self for anyone.

2. You must develop a repetoir of openers. An opener is a conversation starter that gets your foot in the door in a situation where you would like to talk to a woman. The best openers tend to be the non-direct ones. Something like an opinion opener, "Who lies more men or women," works best because it is non threatning and the woman will not go into a defensive mode.

3. You must learn to read women's indicators of interest (ioi's) These are the subtle things she says, body language clues, gestures that are green lights. Generally once you get 3 of these you can assume that she is interested and begin displaying your own interest.

4. You must apply the cat and the string theory. This theory goes on the assumption that once a woman knows that she has you, she is no longer interested. So in theory you must push/pull her. Which means you show a little interest and that back off. You compliment her, and then take it away.

5. You must use negs. Negs are subtle insults or back handed compliments you give extremely beautiful women to knock them off their pedestal so to speak. A good neg, "You just spit on me." You would say this to a girl as she is talking to you.

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e now entering the mainstream culture.

The most popular of these gurus are David DeAngelo, Ross Jeffries, Carlos Zuma, Michael Stoute, the men behind The Mystery Method, and Wayne "Juggler" Elise. While all their method vary they all fundamentally teach the same principles.

These principles include:

1. You must become an alpha male. An alpha male is the super masculine guy who leads the group, is aggressive in pursuing what he wants, and does not supplicate him self for anyone.

2. You must develop a repetoir of openers. An opener is a conversation starter that gets your foot in the door in a situation where you would like to talk to a woman. The best openers tend to be the non-direct ones. Something like an opinion opener, "Who lies more men or women," works best because it is non threatning and the woman will not go into a defensive mode.

3. You must learn to read women's indicators of interest (ioi's) These are the subtle things she says, body language clues, gestures that are green lights. Generally once you get 3 of these you can assume that she is interested and begin displaying your own interest.

4. You must apply the cat and the string theory. This theory goes on the assumption that once a woman knows that she has you, she is no longer interested. So in theory you must push/pull her. Which means you show a little interest and that back off. You compliment her, and then take it away.

5. You must use negs. Negs are subtle insults or back handed compliments you give extremely beautiful women to knock them off their pedestal so to speak. A good neg, "You just spit on me." You would say this to a girl as she is talking to you.

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ation starter that gets your foot in the door in a situation where you would like to talk to a woman. The best openers tend to be the non-direct ones. Something like an opinion opener, "Who lies more men or women," works best because it is non threatning and the woman will not go into a defensive mode.

3. You must learn to read women's indicators of interest (ioi's) These are the subtle things she says, body language clues, gestures that are green lights. Generally once you get 3 of these you can assume that she is interested and begin displaying your own interest.

4. You must apply the cat and the string theory. This theory goes on the assumption that once a woman knows that she has you, she is no longer interested. So in theory you must push/pull her. Which means you show a little interest and that back off. You compliment her, and then take it away.

5. You must use negs. Negs are subtle insults or back handed compliments you give extremely beautiful women to knock them off their pedestal so to speak. A good neg, "You just spit on me." You would say this to a girl as she is talking to you.

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rest.

4. You must apply the cat and the string theory. This theory goes on the assumption that once a woman knows that she has you, she is no longer interested. So in theory you must push/pull her. Which means you show a little interest and that back off. You compliment her, and then take it away.

5. You must use negs. Negs are subtle insults or back handed compliments you give extremely beautiful women to knock them off their pedestal so to speak. A good neg, "You just spit on me." You would say this to a girl as she is talking to you.

These are just some of the many things being taught by the so called experts out there. If you are currently unsuccessful with women you may want to look further into these books as many men have experienced complete transformations.