is wrong with her professional life and her boss or her employer. This triggers negative memories and does not add any value to your dating time.

• Never broach the topic of her past romant

Listing below some topics to keep away from, while talking during a date:

• Avoid talking about things which stir up memories of negative things, like violence, wrestling, rape, child abuse, death stories, animosity, hatred, cruelty. She is a woman after all!

• Avoid bringing up the past – both hers and yours. If she is curious about yours, steer the conversation on to something else. And never pass any derogatory comment about any past woman you may have had a relationship with.

• Never demean yourself, even if you mean it as a joke, as it gives a signal of low self-esteem. And you will never get her on your side, sympathetically or empathetically.

• Any topic that can be remotely controversial, like racism, apartheid, abortion, religion.

• What is wrong with her professional life and her boss or her employer. This triggers negative memories and does not add any value to your dating time.

• Never broach the topic of her past romanti

death stories, animosity, hatred, cruelty. She is a woman after all!

• Avoid bringing up the past – both hers and yours. If she is curious about yours, steer the conversation on to something else. And never pass any derogatory comment about any past woman you may have had a relationship with.

• Never demean yourself, even if you mean it as a joke, as it gives a signal of low self-esteem. And you will never get her on your side, sympathetically or empathetically.

• Any topic that can be remotely controversial, like racism, apartheid, abortion, religion.

• What is wrong with her professional life and her boss or her employer. This triggers negative memories and does not add any value to your dating time.

• Never broach the topic of her past romant

else. And never pass any derogatory comment about any past woman you may have had a relationship with.

• Never demean yourself, even if you mean it as a joke, as it gives a signal of low self-esteem. And you will never get her on your side, sympathetically or empathetically.

• Any topic that can be remotely controversial, like racism, apartheid, abortion, religion.

• What is wrong with her professional life and her boss or her employer. This triggers negative memories and does not add any value to your dating time.

• Never broach the topic of her past romant

lf-esteem. And you will never get her on your side, sympathetically or empathetically.

• Any topic that can be remotely controversial, like racism, apartheid, abortion, religion.

• What is wrong with her professional life and her boss or her employer. This triggers negative memories and does not add any value to your dating time.

• Never broach the topic of her past romant

is wrong with her professional life and her boss or her employer. This triggers negative memories and does not add any value to your dating time.

• Never broach the topic of her past romantic liaisons.

• Issues related to health problems or past or present illnesses.

• Don’t show off or overtly display your affluence or bank credit ratings. If she is looking at your purse, there is hardly any point in continuing with this relationship. Even if she reminds you of Angelina Jolie. Let her look up “Gold Digger’s Monthly”. What are you doing there?

• Start screening those “typical” date questions that show no creativity or originality. Also, if by any way, you give her the impression as to your ultimate aim: “Ok, have coffee, afterwards, let’s have sex”, you will make sure you are showing her the quick way to make an exit.

• Avoid any talk that connects to sex in some way or the other. Even admiring a “sexy” picture fall under this category. O