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Elements of Graphic Design for Your Website zed.We’ve all seen them. Poorly designed web sites that make you cringe as soon as they load. But how do you keep your website from becoming, well, ugh. You could hire a professional web designer, and that’s expensive, or maybe you already hired a professional, or someone who claims to be professional, and you don’t like what they’re doing with your site. It all comes down to the K.I.S.S. principle; keep it simple stupid. And you’re probably asking well what does this really mean for web design.Here are some basic graphic design/web design principles that you can use on your site:1. Background, be careful what color you use for the background of your site. Yes I know that you’re trying to get noticed, but really they’ve already decided to look at your page so why does it have to be orange? Seriously though, consider how long you want people to be on your site, half an hour, one hour, more? Whatever the time chose your Myth Two: Technology is a Magic Bullet. I had a friend in high school who could never accept his limitations. In fact, anytime we played a game, and he failed to score, he’d make the claim that “he was the perfect athlete, just his equipment was bad.” Of course, no one believed that if he had the most advanced running shoes, he would have broken world records. Do not fall for this kind of misguided thinking. No, I am not a luddite! Technology is powerful, wonderful, and amazing! I am the first to admit that I am thankful for my high-speed internet access and my DVD player; yet, technology can not replace fundamental principles by itself. I think most people would laugh at the low-tech claim that merely having access to pens, folders, and legal pads would result in one becoming organized; yet, many have embraced what I call the gadget fallacy. This is a belief that some electronic tool, such as a PDA or a software Embracing the Joy! When reflecting on the Three Great Myths of Time Management, I am reminded of poem by Stephen Crane:Phase 5: JoyEmbracing the Joy If you are still in the middle of the emotional turmoil of divorce it is hard to believe that you will ever experience joy again. I know when I was working with my coach I would often say to her “I am tired of feeling, I have experienced more emotions in the past six months then I have my whole life and I am sick of it”. But feeling all those strong emotions and experiencing the roller coaster was worth it, when I finally got to this stage. I realized that I had to face all of those uncomfortable emotions before I could truly be free to move forward.Comfortable in Your Own SkinYou know this stage when you look forward to coming home and just sitting down and doing absolute nothing. When you feel comfortable in your own skin and don’t mind spending a few hours with yourself. Feeling the freedom to just say “ah, isn’t this great”. Knowing that you hav A man said to the universe: "Sir I exist!" "However," replied the universe, "The fact has not created in me A sense of obligation." Time is much like the Crane’s depiction of the universe. It constantly passes without waiting. Once a day has gone by, it is forever lost and can never be recovered. In 365 days, you will be a year older, regardless if you lost 20 pounds or gained 20. Time’s arrow flies forward without any sense of obligation. Myth One: You can manage time. Time is our greatest constraint, but it is also a wonderful leveler as everyone, from the highest king to the lowest serf, is given the exact same quantity of time per day: 24 hours. Of course, this can be subdivided into smaller useful chunks, but that really does not ‘manage’ time. There is no way to manipulate time or create more of it. While discussing this myth with a friend of mine who is pursuing an advanced degree in physics, he had two interesting objections: 1) What about Leap Seconds? My response: Sure, occasionally a ‘leap second’ is added to atomic clock in order to adjust for a minor difference between our artificial calendar and the true length of the solar year. This does not add time, but is merely a book-keeping procedure. The Western Calendar, with the addition of the Leap Day which occurs every 4 years (with a few exceptions), is an excellent approximation for this time span; however, every now and then another second is added to account for the difference between the reality of our planet’s orbit and the human measurement of time. In fact, only 23 leap seconds have been added since 1972. Even if this was some kind of temporal alchemy, would a handful of additional seconds over a lifetime really be a major benefit to anyone? Doubtful. However, this is not time creation, but a simple error correcting methodology. 2) What about Einstein? My response: Yes, this Universe is a fascinating place, and time is certainly relative. If I jump on to a spaceship traveling at the speed of light, time will pass much slower for me than everyone else left on Earth. However, until hyperspace, wormholes, and time warps are part of everyday life, I think we can agree that the six-billion plus people on the planet are experiencing time dilation in the same way. I do agree that when the phrase ‘IT’ begins to stand for Interstellar Travel, many of our practical assumptions will have to be re-examined. Yet, I am going to ignore the Einstein objection (for now) on pragmatic grounds. Bottom line: Life Management You do not manage time, but you do have full control over your choices. The only one who has power over your thoughts, your words, and your deeds is you. Life is what you make it. You decide which roads to walk down. It is your journey. You can choose to climb the highest mountains or explore deep subterranean caverns; you can study physics or metaphysics...or both. You choose what your life will be. In the past, you made decisions that determined what you life is today. You choose what it will become in the present moment. Time Management is a major misnomer. I only use it occasionally as many people still refer to this way. Some who object to the idea of Time Management call this Self-Management; however, I prefer the term Life Management as there are networks and interactions beyond one's self (e.g. relationships). You must balance your life so you can make good choices to manage everything in your life, including family, values, goals, career, friends, finances, health, etc. Life Management is 100% dependent on being able to make wise and effective choices so the outcomes you desire are realized. Myth Two: Technology is a Magic Bullet. I had a friend in high school who could never accept his limitations. In fact, anytime we played a game, and he failed to score, he’d make the claim that “he was the perfect athlete, just his equipment was bad.” Of course, no one believed that if he had the most advanced running shoes, he would have broken world records. Do not fall for this kind of misguided thinking. No, I am not a luddite! Technology is powerful, wonderful, and amazing! I am the first to admit that I am thankful for my high-speed internet access and my DVD player; yet, technology can not replace fundamental principles by itself. I think most people would laugh at the low-tech claim that merely having access to pens, folders, and legal pads would result in one becoming organized; yet, many have embraced what I call the gadget fallacy. This is a belief that some electronic tool, such as a PDA or a software Morality As A Mental State or create more of it.INTRODUCTIONMoral values, rules, principles, and judgements are often thought of as beliefs or as true beliefs. Those who hold them to be true beliefs also annex to them a warrant or a justification (from the "real world"). Yet, it is far more reasonable to conceive of morality (ethics) as a state of mind, a mental state. It entails belief, but not necessarily true belief, or justification. As a mental state, morality cannot admit the "world" (right and wrong, evidence, goals, or results) into its logical formal definition. The world is never part of the definition of a mental state.Another way of looking at it, though, is that morality cannot be defined in terms of goals and results - because these goals and results ARE morality itself. Such a definition would be tautological.There is no guarantee that we know when we are in a certain mental state. Morality is no exception.An analysis based on the sc While discussing this myth with a friend of mine who is pursuing an advanced degree in physics, he had two interesting objections: 1) What about Leap Seconds? My response: Sure, occasionally a ‘leap second’ is added to atomic clock in order to adjust for a minor difference between our artificial calendar and the true length of the solar year. This does not add time, but is merely a book-keeping procedure. The Western Calendar, with the addition of the Leap Day which occurs every 4 years (with a few exceptions), is an excellent approximation for this time span; however, every now and then another second is added to account for the difference between the reality of our planet’s orbit and the human measurement of time. In fact, only 23 leap seconds have been added since 1972. Even if this was some kind of temporal alchemy, would a handful of additional seconds over a lifetime really be a major benefit to anyone? Doubtful. However, this is not time creation, but a simple error correcting methodology. 2) What about Einstein? My response: Yes, this Universe is a fascinating place, and time is certainly relative. If I jump on to a spaceship traveling at the speed of light, time will pass much slower for me than everyone else left on Earth. However, until hyperspace, wormholes, and time warps are part of everyday life, I think we can agree that the six-billion plus people on the planet are experiencing time dilation in the same way. I do agree that when the phrase ‘IT’ begins to stand for Interstellar Travel, many of our practical assumptions will have to be re-examined. Yet, I am going to ignore the Einstein objection (for now) on pragmatic grounds. Bottom line: Life Management You do not manage time, but you do have full control over your choices. The only one who has power over your thoughts, your words, and your deeds is you. Life is what you make it. You decide which roads to walk down. It is your journey. You can choose to climb the highest mountains or explore deep subterranean caverns; you can study physics or metaphysics...or both. You choose what your life will be. In the past, you made decisions that determined what you life is today. You choose what it will become in the present moment. Time Management is a major misnomer. I only use it occasionally as many people still refer to this way. Some who object to the idea of Time Management call this Self-Management; however, I prefer the term Life Management as there are networks and interactions beyond one's self (e.g. relationships). You must balance your life so you can make good choices to manage everything in your life, including family, values, goals, career, friends, finances, health, etc. Life Management is 100% dependent on being able to make wise and effective choices so the outcomes you desire are realized. Myth Two: Technology is a Magic Bullet. I had a friend in high school who could never accept his limitations. In fact, anytime we played a game, and he failed to score, he’d make the claim that “he was the perfect athlete, just his equipment was bad.” Of course, no one believed that if he had the most advanced running shoes, he would have broken world records. Do not fall for this kind of misguided thinking. No, I am not a luddite! Technology is powerful, wonderful, and amazing! I am the first to admit that I am thankful for my high-speed internet access and my DVD player; yet, technology can not replace fundamental principles by itself. I think most people would laugh at the low-tech claim that merely having access to pens, folders, and legal pads would result in one becoming organized; yet, many have embraced what I call the gadget fallacy. This is a belief that some electronic tool, such as a PDA or a software Making Happy Friends l. However, this is not time creation, but a simple error correcting methodology.How to have happy friends? This is a very important question. Who likes friends who don't smile and laugh? Who enjoys meeting friends who look serious? Not any of us.What about ourselves? Do we make happy friendships? Do we make our friends happy? before thinking about others, wouldn't it be better if we first analyze our own self? Do we smile often when we are with our friends? Do we laugh at the smallest joke? Or we have a serious expression on our face all the time with our friends? Let us first think about our own behavior and correct whatever we can .Making happy friendships -Make yourself look happy with your friends and your friends will reflect. That is the secret of happy friendship. Our emotions are reflected in our body language. The reverse is equally true. Does this help us? it does. it can change our state of mind by changing our physical state. For example, if you are feeling bored, try to lo 2) What about Einstein? My response: Yes, this Universe is a fascinating place, and time is certainly relative. If I jump on to a spaceship traveling at the speed of light, time will pass much slower for me than everyone else left on Earth. However, until hyperspace, wormholes, and time warps are part of everyday life, I think we can agree that the six-billion plus people on the planet are experiencing time dilation in the same way. I do agree that when the phrase ‘IT’ begins to stand for Interstellar Travel, many of our practical assumptions will have to be re-examined. Yet, I am going to ignore the Einstein objection (for now) on pragmatic grounds. Bottom line: Life Management You do not manage time, but you do have full control over your choices. The only one who has power over your thoughts, your words, and your deeds is you. Life is what you make it. You decide which roads to walk down. It is your journey. You can choose to climb the highest mountains or explore deep subterranean caverns; you can study physics or metaphysics...or both. You choose what your life will be. In the past, you made decisions that determined what you life is today. You choose what it will become in the present moment. Time Management is a major misnomer. I only use it occasionally as many people still refer to this way. Some who object to the idea of Time Management call this Self-Management; however, I prefer the term Life Management as there are networks and interactions beyond one's self (e.g. relationships). You must balance your life so you can make good choices to manage everything in your life, including family, values, goals, career, friends, finances, health, etc. Life Management is 100% dependent on being able to make wise and effective choices so the outcomes you desire are realized. Myth Two: Technology is a Magic Bullet. I had a friend in high school who could never accept his limitations. In fact, anytime we played a game, and he failed to score, he’d make the claim that “he was the perfect athlete, just his equipment was bad.” Of course, no one believed that if he had the most advanced running shoes, he would have broken world records. Do not fall for this kind of misguided thinking. No, I am not a luddite! Technology is powerful, wonderful, and amazing! I am the first to admit that I am thankful for my high-speed internet access and my DVD player; yet, technology can not replace fundamental principles by itself. I think most people would laugh at the low-tech claim that merely having access to pens, folders, and legal pads would result in one becoming organized; yet, many have embraced what I call the gadget fallacy. This is a belief that some electronic tool, such as a PDA or a software In Debt - You Can Do Something About It e is what you make it. You decide which roads to walk down. It is your journey. You can choose to climb the highest mountains or explore deep subterranean caverns; you can study physics or metaphysics...or both. You choose what your life will be. In the past, you made decisions that determined what you life is today. You choose what it will become in the present moment.If there is one thing common with a lot of Americans it is drowning in debt. Do you know that an average American has 2-3 credit cards? Most of them are either in owning so many arrears already or near to going in debt.This is because most people have a spending problem, and this is worsened by credit cards because it gives them capacity to purchase the item they fancy even if they do not have the money.Why don’t you try a few things before you declare bankruptcy? Here are a few ideas that you might want to consider.Try debt consolidation Have you ever heard of putting all your debts in one? Lenders call that debt consolidation. You give them all your outstanding balance and let them pay for it. After that you will be paying them for a few years (10-15 years). It’s a good way of fixing your debt because it lessens the interest rates that you have to pay. It will also lessen stress because you will only Time Management is a major misnomer. I only use it occasionally as many people still refer to this way. Some who object to the idea of Time Management call this Self-Management; however, I prefer the term Life Management as there are networks and interactions beyond one's self (e.g. relationships). You must balance your life so you can make good choices to manage everything in your life, including family, values, goals, career, friends, finances, health, etc. Life Management is 100% dependent on being able to make wise and effective choices so the outcomes you desire are realized. Myth Two: Technology is a Magic Bullet. I had a friend in high school who could never accept his limitations. In fact, anytime we played a game, and he failed to score, he’d make the claim that “he was the perfect athlete, just his equipment was bad.” Of course, no one believed that if he had the most advanced running shoes, he would have broken world records. Do not fall for this kind of misguided thinking. No, I am not a luddite! Technology is powerful, wonderful, and amazing! I am the first to admit that I am thankful for my high-speed internet access and my DVD player; yet, technology can not replace fundamental principles by itself. I think most people would laugh at the low-tech claim that merely having access to pens, folders, and legal pads would result in one becoming organized; yet, many have embraced what I call the gadget fallacy. This is a belief that some electronic tool, such as a PDA or a software How To Survive The Works Christmas Party zed.Are you going to your works Christmas Party this year? Are you worried that you might do something which you may later regret when under the influence of alcohol? I am attending my own companies Christmas party next week and after having been to a number of these events in the past, I have a number of ideas of what to do and what not to do, ideas of which I will be writing about in this article.I have witnessed some crazy things at previous Christmas parties that I have attended, from people getting drunk and hitting the boss, to other people attempting to chat up the boss. These may seem quite funny when looking back but at the time they were far from this. The weeks and months after these parties were less than comfortable for the people involved. The excuse of being drunk was not enough and the careers of the people at the companies involved were basically over from that point.The Christmas party is a no win sit Myth Two: Technology is a Magic Bullet. I had a friend in high school who could never accept his limitations. In fact, anytime we played a game, and he failed to score, he’d make the claim that “he was the perfect athlete, just his equipment was bad.” Of course, no one believed that if he had the most advanced running shoes, he would have broken world records. Do not fall for this kind of misguided thinking. No, I am not a luddite! Technology is powerful, wonderful, and amazing! I am the first to admit that I am thankful for my high-speed internet access and my DVD player; yet, technology can not replace fundamental principles by itself. I think most people would laugh at the low-tech claim that merely having access to pens, folders, and legal pads would result in one becoming organized; yet, many have embraced what I call the gadget fallacy. This is a belief that some electronic tool, such as a PDA or a software package will solve all their organization problems. When I managed a PC Support department for a large investment firm, I assisted with the procurement of over 450 different PDA devices for the firm; yet, few of individuals who received these suddenly transformed, even after uploading their contacts and calendars. I’d estimate 50% of the associates who purchased these devices stopped using them on a regular basis after several months. When you think about what a PDA is and can do, it is possible to see it as a very advanced version of paper (perhaps, paper 3.0?). Yet, as a tool, if properly used, it can be extremely helpful. Bottom Line: Alone technology is not enough. Yet, if integrated into a broader system, one that tackles inputs from both the analog and digital worlds, such tools can greatly enhance the overall process of Life Management. Myth Three: None of the techniques from the 20th century work any longer. Any body of knowledge is progressive; new ideas build on older concepts. In this respect, Life Management is no different than the fields of Biology or Economics. However, the widely held belief that any idea which is more than a few decades old is completely outmoded is neither logical nor defendable. Yes, some older methods have been replaced by better ones. Some are completely extinct (and rightly so), but this does not mean ALL of them should be discounted. Think about Physics. After the advent of Einstein, were the laws outlined by Newton in 1687 suddenly wrong? No. Newtonian physics, by itself, works well enough to send rockets to the moon. In fact, most high school and college students first focus on classical physics, including many concepts over 300 years old, before moving to the newer quantum physics. Here are some just a few ‘ancient’ strategies that still have great value: • Mission Statements/Purpose Statements I am willing to bet that 99 times of out 100, someone employing only techniques developed 40 years ago would be more productive than someone using no techniques whatsoever! It is also important to realize there is a great a great diversity of lifestyles and careers, each with different demands and a unique speed of life. Some can not imagine functioning without their Blackberry while others prefer to handle everything with just pen and paper. Bottom Line: Do not shun an idea just because it turned 50 last week. Instead of asking the question “How old is it?” I suggest asking “Does it work?”
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