oblems areas in order to improve them.

The truth is, that what we focus on grows. That is one of life’s principles. If we focus on the garbage in our lives, we get more garbage. When we focus on the good in our lives, we get more good. It seems to be that “count your blessings” thing.

If the player focuses on

One of the players I meet as I was preparing for the Tour was a fellow from Tennessee, Bobby G. I won’t use his name because I don’t have his permission. He is one of a few golfers who ever beat Jack Nicklaus in an 18 hole match. Jack actually wrote about it in one of his books.

I was talking with Bobby following a round in a Florida tournament his first year on the Tour. He had not played particularly well that day and was bemoaning his putting. During our conversation, it was apparent that Bobby was not playing to his ability on the Tour so far. He felt his putting was to blame. His solution was to count his three putts and keep track of all his three putts all the time.

Bobby lost his card after that first year or shortly thereafter. At the time I didn’t understand how Bobby could have lost his card. He was a very good player and had beat Jack in a head to head match.

But as I now realize, Bobby was making the same mistake I had made many times and many of the players made almost daily.

What is a golfer’s normal reaction after a round of golf, be the round good bad or indifferent? Normal self-conversation is about the shortcomings, the problem areas, the areas for improvement. It includes a glancing appreciation for the good and a focus on the problems areas in order to improve them.

The truth is, that what we focus on grows. That is one of life’s principles. If we focus on the garbage in our lives, we get more garbage. When we focus on the good in our lives, we get more good. It seems to be that “count your blessings” thing.

If the player focuses on t

round in a Florida tournament his first year on the Tour. He had not played particularly well that day and was bemoaning his putting. During our conversation, it was apparent that Bobby was not playing to his ability on the Tour so far. He felt his putting was to blame. His solution was to count his three putts and keep track of all his three putts all the time.

Bobby lost his card after that first year or shortly thereafter. At the time I didn’t understand how Bobby could have lost his card. He was a very good player and had beat Jack in a head to head match.

But as I now realize, Bobby was making the same mistake I had made many times and many of the players made almost daily.

What is a golfer’s normal reaction after a round of golf, be the round good bad or indifferent? Normal self-conversation is about the shortcomings, the problem areas, the areas for improvement. It includes a glancing appreciation for the good and a focus on the problems areas in order to improve them.

The truth is, that what we focus on grows. That is one of life’s principles. If we focus on the garbage in our lives, we get more garbage. When we focus on the good in our lives, we get more good. It seems to be that “count your blessings” thing.

If the player focuses on

rack of all his three putts all the time.

Bobby lost his card after that first year or shortly thereafter. At the time I didn’t understand how Bobby could have lost his card. He was a very good player and had beat Jack in a head to head match.

But as I now realize, Bobby was making the same mistake I had made many times and many of the players made almost daily.

What is a golfer’s normal reaction after a round of golf, be the round good bad or indifferent? Normal self-conversation is about the shortcomings, the problem areas, the areas for improvement. It includes a glancing appreciation for the good and a focus on the problems areas in order to improve them.

The truth is, that what we focus on grows. That is one of life’s principles. If we focus on the garbage in our lives, we get more garbage. When we focus on the good in our lives, we get more good. It seems to be that “count your blessings” thing.

If the player focuses on

any times and many of the players made almost daily.

What is a golfer’s normal reaction after a round of golf, be the round good bad or indifferent? Normal self-conversation is about the shortcomings, the problem areas, the areas for improvement. It includes a glancing appreciation for the good and a focus on the problems areas in order to improve them.

The truth is, that what we focus on grows. That is one of life’s principles. If we focus on the garbage in our lives, we get more garbage. When we focus on the good in our lives, we get more good. It seems to be that “count your blessings” thing.

If the player focuses on

oblems areas in order to improve them.

The truth is, that what we focus on grows. That is one of life’s principles. If we focus on the garbage in our lives, we get more garbage. When we focus on the good in our lives, we get more good. It seems to be that “count your blessings” thing.

If the player focuses on the three putts he made during a round, he will have more three putts the next time he plays golf. If the player focuses on the water, he has plenty of water penalties; bunkers, he has plenty of sand shots; short tee shots, shorter tee shots.

I hated it when I hit a bad shot, a quick hook with my driver, a bad score on a hole or had a bad round. After one of those experiences, I would practice like mad with that experience in mind so that I would never let that happen again. All I was doing was making that same experience more possible by focusing on it during what I thought was the correction process.

It is only at this time in my life that I realize what Jack Nicklaus and his caddie, Angelo, were doing after a round of golf. The first and most important question was always, “What went right? What did I do well today? What did you do well today? What did we do well today?” Much time was spent on what went right. That was the focus.

The next question was almost in the positive, “What would I do differently? What would you do differently? What would we do differently?” Notice that the word ‘wrong’ is never a part of the question. There is no negative here. There is no focus on the negative, only recognition of the things that could be done differently.