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Added for You - Getting Married? 7 Topics to Discuss Before the Big Day
As you may have heard, NASA and Google have just announced a partnership of sorts. While it seems like an information sharing agreement, a close reading reveals some rather startling things.Google to Dominate Entire Physical Universe?At its core, Google is a search engine. While this is obvious, people sometimes forget it given all the interesting gadgets Google Labs kicks out. Regardless of how you define it, Google typically has at least been restricted to being classified as no broader than an information technology company. It would appear Google has much bigger plans.With more than a
5. Discuss the sensitive topics of money. Financial stress has the power to divide the strongest marriages. Consider these questions now: Do either of you have lots of personal debt? Have you both fully disclosed how much you owe, and whose responsible for paying the debt once you’re married? What’s the status of these accounts? Are they current, l
I must first start this by telling you that I am a resident of Mauldin. I always have been. I have lived on the same street since I was born. In fact, I bought a house just two doors down from where I grew up. So when I see us moving in the right direction, it makes me pretty happy.The Mauldin City Council met on February 8 to have what they call a goal setting workshop. This workshop only lasts about an hour, and the purpose is to talk about short and long-term goals for the city of Mauldin. Think of this goal setting meeting as leading by committee. The City Council will get together and vote o
Surely, you want the roof that will withstand a rainstorm. Yet, many couples don’t know how to build a structurally sound marriage. Once you know how, it’s in your hands to build a marriage that works. The sooner you realize that you have to build a happy marriage, the sooner you’ll have one.
So, here are 7 basic principles for a happy marriage. Don’t despair if your relationship needs work in these areas. It’s your awareness of these topics and your willingness to address them that matters the most!
1. A happy marriage starts with a happy single. Although you are a couple, you’re still an individual with ideas and passions that are a part of you. You’re sense of joy and happiness is your feeling, and therefore your responsibility. We can’t make people do things, just as our partner’s can’t make us happy. So, stay in touch with what you love about life. What are your strengths, and what’s wonderful about you? These qualities are important to live by everyday. Decide to be a fulfilled individual, and you’ll likely have a fulfilling marriage.
2. Talk about the importance of talking. A Lack of communication between couples is the number one reason for marital stress. The fastest way to put strain on a marriage is to hold back your feelings. It’s not fair to expect your spouse to know your thoughts. If there’s something you must say, then say it confidently from a loving place. The fact is, people who don’t speak-up RARELY get their needs met.
3. You CANNOT change your partner. What are his/her patterns, behaviors, hobbies, and interests now? You can count on the fact that they’ll continue these patterns, and, when married, you’ll feel them more intensely. If he loves football now, he’ll always love it. If she hangs out with her friends on Saturday nights, then some Saturday nights she’ll still hang out. Patterns and behaviors of your partner rarely change after marriage, they only magnify. Marry your partner for who they are today; Not who you want them to be tomorrow.
4. Leave the past in the past. If you’re getting ready to walk down the aisle, then you’ve already decided to accept your fianc?s past. If your partner has a history that’s unclear or unsettling for you, clear it up now. Otherwise, let it go. Even more, if past relationships remain heartbreaking, share them with your partner. If there’s more deep-seated pain from the past, seek out a counselor or coach to gain some closure. Whatever you do, don’t just ignore a particularly painful past. It has a way of re-surfacing in the present, and can complicate and confuse your feelings in your current relationship.
5. Discuss the sensitive topics of money. Financial stress has the power to divide the strongest marriages. Consider these questions now: Do either of you have lots of personal debt? Have you both fully disclosed how much you owe, and whose responsible for paying the debt once you’re married? What’s the status of these accounts? Are they current, la
Always remember that natural care exercises are just that; exercises. Always remember that your eyes are no different than any other part of your body. Your eyes need to be strengthened or else they will weaken and you need to put out more effort or money to fix them.Considering the fact that your eyes are just as valuable as all other parts of your body, they should realistically be receiving the same care and maintenance as other major body parts, right?. You ensure that your arms and legs are exercised regularly, right? so what about your eyes?To add natural eye care exercises into your exerci
1. A happy marriage starts with a happy single. Although you are a couple, you’re still an individual with ideas and passions that are a part of you. You’re sense of joy and happiness is your feeling, and therefore your responsibility. We can’t make people do things, just as our partner’s can’t make us happy. So, stay in touch with what you love about life. What are your strengths, and what’s wonderful about you? These qualities are important to live by everyday. Decide to be a fulfilled individual, and you’ll likely have a fulfilling marriage.
2. Talk about the importance of talking. A Lack of communication between couples is the number one reason for marital stress. The fastest way to put strain on a marriage is to hold back your feelings. It’s not fair to expect your spouse to know your thoughts. If there’s something you must say, then say it confidently from a loving place. The fact is, people who don’t speak-up RARELY get their needs met.
3. You CANNOT change your partner. What are his/her patterns, behaviors, hobbies, and interests now? You can count on the fact that they’ll continue these patterns, and, when married, you’ll feel them more intensely. If he loves football now, he’ll always love it. If she hangs out with her friends on Saturday nights, then some Saturday nights she’ll still hang out. Patterns and behaviors of your partner rarely change after marriage, they only magnify. Marry your partner for who they are today; Not who you want them to be tomorrow.
4. Leave the past in the past. If you’re getting ready to walk down the aisle, then you’ve already decided to accept your fianc?s past. If your partner has a history that’s unclear or unsettling for you, clear it up now. Otherwise, let it go. Even more, if past relationships remain heartbreaking, share them with your partner. If there’s more deep-seated pain from the past, seek out a counselor or coach to gain some closure. Whatever you do, don’t just ignore a particularly painful past. It has a way of re-surfacing in the present, and can complicate and confuse your feelings in your current relationship.
5. Discuss the sensitive topics of money. Financial stress has the power to divide the strongest marriages. Consider these questions now: Do either of you have lots of personal debt? Have you both fully disclosed how much you owe, and whose responsible for paying the debt once you’re married? What’s the status of these accounts? Are they current, l
It has been some time that Nokia N95 is available in the mobile phone markets around the whole world. The specs of this device are truly mesmerising and the critics were calling it the best Nokia mobile phone till date. However, the spirit and the curiosity of a human mind is not easily satiated. After toying with nokia N95 for more than a month now, the users are now looking for a better instrument, much better than N95 which can again enthrall their imagination.The scientists at Nokia factory are indeed clever and they probably had anticipated the reaction and the expectations that might crop up after
2. Talk about the importance of talking. A Lack of communication between couples is the number one reason for marital stress. The fastest way to put strain on a marriage is to hold back your feelings. It’s not fair to expect your spouse to know your thoughts. If there’s something you must say, then say it confidently from a loving place. The fact is, people who don’t speak-up RARELY get their needs met.
3. You CANNOT change your partner. What are his/her patterns, behaviors, hobbies, and interests now? You can count on the fact that they’ll continue these patterns, and, when married, you’ll feel them more intensely. If he loves football now, he’ll always love it. If she hangs out with her friends on Saturday nights, then some Saturday nights she’ll still hang out. Patterns and behaviors of your partner rarely change after marriage, they only magnify. Marry your partner for who they are today; Not who you want them to be tomorrow.
4. Leave the past in the past. If you’re getting ready to walk down the aisle, then you’ve already decided to accept your fianc?s past. If your partner has a history that’s unclear or unsettling for you, clear it up now. Otherwise, let it go. Even more, if past relationships remain heartbreaking, share them with your partner. If there’s more deep-seated pain from the past, seek out a counselor or coach to gain some closure. Whatever you do, don’t just ignore a particularly painful past. It has a way of re-surfacing in the present, and can complicate and confuse your feelings in your current relationship.
5. Discuss the sensitive topics of money. Financial stress has the power to divide the strongest marriages. Consider these questions now: Do either of you have lots of personal debt? Have you both fully disclosed how much you owe, and whose responsible for paying the debt once you’re married? What’s the status of these accounts? Are they current, l
Finding an Area that Encourages New BusinessesThroughout the UK, there are many cities that have created specific plans devoted to encouraging new retail businesses. Norwich, Northamptonshire, Oxford and many other communities have focused their efforts on encouraging, developing and sustaining new retail establishments, business sectors and the infrastructure needed to promote investment and success.In Part I of our two-part article devoted to helping you choose the right premises for your business, we will consider what defines a supportive municipal environment for new companies. Although ther
4. Leave the past in the past. If you’re getting ready to walk down the aisle, then you’ve already decided to accept your fianc?s past. If your partner has a history that’s unclear or unsettling for you, clear it up now. Otherwise, let it go. Even more, if past relationships remain heartbreaking, share them with your partner. If there’s more deep-seated pain from the past, seek out a counselor or coach to gain some closure. Whatever you do, don’t just ignore a particularly painful past. It has a way of re-surfacing in the present, and can complicate and confuse your feelings in your current relationship.
5. Discuss the sensitive topics of money. Financial stress has the power to divide the strongest marriages. Consider these questions now: Do either of you have lots of personal debt? Have you both fully disclosed how much you owe, and whose responsible for paying the debt once you’re married? What’s the status of these accounts? Are they current, l
There’s more to shopping for curtain fabric than seeking out the perfect print of the weave those complements the color scheme to perfection. Furnishing fabrics are not all suitable for every situation. With the wide range of weaves and weighs of cloth available, make sure the one you buy will do the job you have in mind. The two most important factors to bear in mind when looking for curtain fabric are resistance to fading and the weight of the fabric.Light resistance curtains, being so close to windows, take a lot of punishment from sunlight. Make sure to close fabrics that are resistant to fading a
5. Discuss the sensitive topics of money. Financial stress has the power to divide the strongest marriages. Consider these questions now: Do either of you have lots of personal debt? Have you both fully disclosed how much you owe, and whose responsible for paying the debt once you’re married? What’s the status of these accounts? Are they current, late, bankrupt? Joint accounts or separate? This information should not be a surprise when you return from paradise. If you haven’t told your partner about some outstanding debt, it’s time to do it. Then, ask yourself why you’re holding back, and re-read step 2 above.
6. How many kids, if any? Let’s face it, you’ve either always known you want to have children, or contemplated living a child-free life. Either way, if you want one kid and he wants three, understand that you may both change your mind once a baby is born. But, if one person wants no children and the other does, it significantly changes your future plans together. These critical facts should NOT be surprises. They can be deal-breakers if you strongly disagree.
7. Share your biggest dreams and passions, then listen to your partner’s. Support and encourage your partner to fulfill his/her passion. If you’ve always wanted to start a business, be home with your kids, live overseas, or go to Peru, tell your partner now. In order to create a happy marriage, you must live your life fully. This doesn’t mean you both have to experience every dream, but if you can simply share these dreams, your partner will learn more about what’s truly inside of you. By allowing your partner inside your deepest thoughts, you strengthen your bond, and connect on a higher, more spiritual level.
Do more than enjoy the wedding of your dreams. Create a lifetime of happiness. Remember, happy, healthy individuals create happy, healthy relationships.
Kimberly Talley, MA
Life & Relationship Coach
Phone: 301-875-5019
E-mail: coach.services@gmail.com
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