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    Fear of Scarcity Learn to find an abundance of prospects The Fear of Being Intrusive People who mind intrusion don't take calls The Fear of Being Offensive The timid way you sell offends prospects The Fear of Not Being Believed Practice full disclosure and be believed The Fear of Being Disrespected Directness and Authenticity get respect

    The Fear of Failure and/or the Fear of Success needs professional guidance

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    In the 15 years we've been training salespeople in High Probability Selling, we've known that what we teach scares people. What we haven't known is *why* our methods scare some salespeople into clinging to their old - but ineffective - sales approaches. Why can't so many salespeople change the way they sell?

    After years of research, we've finally determined why so many salespeople can't change the way they sell: They're afraid of doing what really works!

    Typically, salespeople mask their fears with macho attitudes. They think of themselves as heroic figures, persevering against all obstacles, fighting the good fight day after day. But, think about this: Who are they really fighting?

    Through extensive research under the guidance of Dr. Wayne Diamond, we've concluded that salespeople's own fears are the biggest impediment to their success. Fear is the real 'enemy'.

    This is where true courage enters the picture: We have to recognize and confront our fears before we can overcome them. Here is a 3-Step Strategy for overcoming your fears. (Note: "Uncomfortable, uneasy, and anxious" are other words for fear.)

    1. Reality or Fantasy?

    The first thing you need to do is determine whether the fears you have are based in Reality or Fantasy. You can't beat what isn't real. You can't overcome what is real if you won't admit exists. If a fear is based in reality, facing it helps to overcome the fear. If a fear is based in fantasy, acknowledging the fantasy helps to overcome it.

    What you resist persists. If you resist facing your fears, they will persist.

    2. Acknowledge Your Fears

    Typical Sales Fears	        Reality

    The Fear of Rejection	        The way you sell causes rejection
     The Fear of Loss	        You can't lose what you don't have
     The Fear of Scarcity	        Learn to find an abundance of prospects
     The Fear of Being Intrusive	People who mind intrusion don't take calls
     The Fear of Being Offensive 	The timid way you sell offends prospects
     The Fear of Not Being Believed	Practice full disclosure and be believed
     The Fear of Being Disrespected	Directness and Authenticity get respect

    The Fear of Failure and/or the Fear of Success needs professional guidance

    3. Assumption

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    works!

    Typically, salespeople mask their fears with macho attitudes. They think of themselves as heroic figures, persevering against all obstacles, fighting the good fight day after day. But, think about this: Who are they really fighting?

    Through extensive research under the guidance of Dr. Wayne Diamond, we've concluded that salespeople's own fears are the biggest impediment to their success. Fear is the real 'enemy'.

    This is where true courage enters the picture: We have to recognize and confront our fears before we can overcome them. Here is a 3-Step Strategy for overcoming your fears. (Note: "Uncomfortable, uneasy, and anxious" are other words for fear.)

    1. Reality or Fantasy?

    The first thing you need to do is determine whether the fears you have are based in Reality or Fantasy. You can't beat what isn't real. You can't overcome what is real if you won't admit exists. If a fear is based in reality, facing it helps to overcome the fear. If a fear is based in fantasy, acknowledging the fantasy helps to overcome it.

    What you resist persists. If you resist facing your fears, they will persist.

    2. Acknowledge Your Fears

    Typical Sales Fears	        Reality

    The Fear of Rejection	        The way you sell causes rejection
     The Fear of Loss	        You can't lose what you don't have
     The Fear of Scarcity	        Learn to find an abundance of prospects
     The Fear of Being Intrusive	People who mind intrusion don't take calls
     The Fear of Being Offensive 	The timid way you sell offends prospects
     The Fear of Not Being Believed	Practice full disclosure and be believed
     The Fear of Being Disrespected	Directness and Authenticity get respect

    The Fear of Failure and/or the Fear of Success needs professional guidance

    3. Assumptio

    How To Change the Energy of Career Confusion
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    ue courage enters the picture: We have to recognize and confront our fears before we can overcome them. Here is a 3-Step Strategy for overcoming your fears. (Note: "Uncomfortable, uneasy, and anxious" are other words for fear.)

    1. Reality or Fantasy?

    The first thing you need to do is determine whether the fears you have are based in Reality or Fantasy. You can't beat what isn't real. You can't overcome what is real if you won't admit exists. If a fear is based in reality, facing it helps to overcome the fear. If a fear is based in fantasy, acknowledging the fantasy helps to overcome it.

    What you resist persists. If you resist facing your fears, they will persist.

    2. Acknowledge Your Fears

    Typical Sales Fears	        Reality

    The Fear of Rejection	        The way you sell causes rejection
     The Fear of Loss	        You can't lose what you don't have
     The Fear of Scarcity	        Learn to find an abundance of prospects
     The Fear of Being Intrusive	People who mind intrusion don't take calls
     The Fear of Being Offensive 	The timid way you sell offends prospects
     The Fear of Not Being Believed	Practice full disclosure and be believed
     The Fear of Being Disrespected	Directness and Authenticity get respect

    The Fear of Failure and/or the Fear of Success needs professional guidance

    3. Assumptio

    Looong and Boooring Sales Letters
    You have all seen them,the sales letters that never ends. They go on and on about how this product can do this and that. The product can often be very good and have all the features you are looking for.But I think that many of the sales letters that have the task of selling products,are too long and boring.* First, it's a long list of problems that you might have,
    If a fear is based in reality, facing it helps to overcome the fear. If a fear is based in fantasy, acknowledging the fantasy helps to overcome it.

    What you resist persists. If you resist facing your fears, they will persist.

    2. Acknowledge Your Fears

    Typical Sales Fears	        Reality

    The Fear of Rejection	        The way you sell causes rejection
     The Fear of Loss	        You can't lose what you don't have
     The Fear of Scarcity	        Learn to find an abundance of prospects
     The Fear of Being Intrusive	People who mind intrusion don't take calls
     The Fear of Being Offensive 	The timid way you sell offends prospects
     The Fear of Not Being Believed	Practice full disclosure and be believed
     The Fear of Being Disrespected	Directness and Authenticity get respect

    The Fear of Failure and/or the Fear of Success needs professional guidance

    3. Assumptio

    Hook Me Up With A Human
    Oh, what has happened to the carbon-based organizational interface? Many organizations have digitized humans – aka carbon-based units - out of existence in their customer service operations. Now, I love digital technology as much as anyone, but it is time to bring the people back into their appropriate customer service roles, don’t you think?Have you ever tried to reach
    Fear of Scarcity Learn to find an abundance of prospects The Fear of Being Intrusive People who mind intrusion don't take calls The Fear of Being Offensive The timid way you sell offends prospects The Fear of Not Being Believed Practice full disclosure and be believed The Fear of Being Disrespected Directness and Authenticity get respect

    The Fear of Failure and/or the Fear of Success needs professional guidance

    3. Assumptions Are Sales Killers

    Assuming that you know how people will react often produces negative results. It doesn't matter if your assumptions are generally negative or positive. Both are condescending and/or insulting. Both are based on some or all of the fears listed above.

    Assumptions are usually based on what you believe to be True, or what you wish were true. Our false assumptions may be due to past unsuccessful sales experiences, or they may be relics of personal experiences, recent or long 'buried'.

    "Understanding one's fears is simple. Facing the avoidance patterns that comes from fear is quite complex."- Dr. Wayne Diamond. For further information on how to apply these principles call Dr. Diamond at 215-242-9054.

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